PSA GamerGirl is going to take a night off (thank you for that not-too-thunderous applause), and go back to her light-hearted roots. Light-heartedness combined with clichés combined with speaking about yourself in the third person is pretty much how the GamerGirl spends her time between sleep, drinking, and sleep-drinking. What is the cliché aspect, you ask? Well, without further adieu…
Top Ten Most Awesome Things About 2009
Please note, I’m not TIME Magazine, Entertainment Weekly, VH1 or some random idiot who thinks I can tell you what is the best movie (I rarely go), the best album (I recognize, on average, 3 people on the top 20 list every week), or most memorable celebrity moment (I don’t give a shit). So, these are the top ten most awesome things to ME. (See, while the preachiness can take a vacation, the self-aggrandizement never goes away!)
In random order:
8. I bought my first Christmas tree. In years past, I’d always travelled SOMEwhere for Christmas. But this year, I stayed put and decided to buy a Christmas tree for the first time in my life. Yep, it’s fake (The three plants I’ve been given are on death’s door and I also had to haul it myself, so quiet, you), and it’s gorgeous. I’ve loved having it up since Thanksgiving and am pretty ticked that I have to take it down since it’s such a nice source of ambient light. Big fan of ambient light. I can’t wait to put it up several more times before I have to take it to the landfill and fulfill my carbon-emission releasing potential.
2. I bought a house. I haven’t had an ounce of regret or trouble with my home, and it’s been nothing but sheer joy to be in my first home. I had an awesome realtor, and even better home inspector and huge ol’ pile of pride about what I was able to do (and to do it on my own). I can’t wait until I can make some minor improvements and additions, and I’m confident it will be a good purchase for years to come. I’m also confident that I’ll win the PowerBall, so I hope at least one of these things prove true.
5. I started taking better care of myself. It’s true that I’m no paragon of “good living,” but I purchased my bike, started exercising more in general and really made a change to what I eat. I hardly ever purchase factory-manufactured food and learned how to prepare some awesome new dishes in a more healthy way. Fresh ingredients, prepared simply and with health in mind. And, also, love. Now I just need someone to cook for again (2010, I’m looking in your general direction…).
10. My company was acquired. While this could be bad news for most people, I choose to believe this was a good thing. My company was started by venture capitalists and has never been profitable as a result and now we’ve been acquired a good company, with an excellent reputation. I’ll finally get 401k matching, 6 additional days off, more holiday pay and now three floating holidays. I’ve also been assured that my job won’t change very much. So, I’ve elected to see this is a good thing and wrap myself up in the comfortable blanket of naivety and assume that I’ll have more job security, not less. And, if not, hopefully next year’s list will then read “Short stint of unemployment after layoff from newly acquired company.”
7. My finances have never been in better shape. Due to the acquisition, I had to cash out my stock options. I got an additional bonus and will get quite the tidy refund next year now that I deduct interest, property taxes and get the first-time homebuyers’ credit. By the time I get my refund in Feb/March, I’ll be completely debt-free (minus mortgage debt, of course). I’ll also have a tidy nest egg to rely on in case of any bad-newsery related to number 10. Hard to believe that one could get one’s finances in fantastic order in the year one buys a house, but I’ve continued to be fortunate in my career and don’t intend to squander my windfall.
3. I faced several challenges and did well. I could expand, but this area, while important enough to be noted, is too personal for me to go into here. So, feel free to start a pool about what you think I might have otherwise said. Let me know who wins.
4. I met some cool new friends. You know that saying, “things happen for a reason”? It’s easy to just pass that off as some nonsensical cliché (like “karma,” for instance), but I really think I bought my house where I did for a reason. When I started looking, I had romanticized the idea of buying in wine country, but I had just rebuilt my friendships and social life here in Portland and I think had I moved out there, that I would have been so very isolated – which isn’t good for the GamerGirl. Since I’ve moved in, I’ve met so many cool people, especially my neighbors. John and Vicki (to my right) are the “surrogate parent” types who give me advice about electrical fixes, what kind of shed to get and lend me a snow shovel when I need it. They even blow my leaves for me on my sidewalk at times and always say “hi” when I see them. To my left, is Thomas, Chris, Becca, Tony, Tracy and now, cute little Thomas Jefferson (kitteh). I’ve played poker with them, hung out and chatted with them, exchanged war and peace stories and learned that you can see what I’m doing inside my living room pretty darn easily from their porch, so the “walking around with my moisturizing mask on” thing has stopped. (I can’t help it, Chris is cuuuuute!). Tracy loves a good game of Rock Band, and they all look out for me. I feel safer here than I have anywhere else, and it’s nice to have people who I genuinely like who are looking out for me. I also met Lars, who keeps me company with Gmail chat and brought me eggs. Glad to have to met you. *waves*
9. I still have my cat. Ok, roll your eyes if you must, but I’ve had a couple of scares with him due to his age (he turns 18 on May 9, 2010). He’s had some issues lately, and each time I take him in I’m always afraid I’ll get the “I’m sorry, his liver/kidneys/brain/whatever is shutting down” since that would be perfectly reasonable at his age. And although I have to doctor his food and clean up the occasional pile o’ puke, I’m glad I have my Murphy boy with me. I’ve had him since I graduated high school, and he’s hanging in there and I hope I’m fortunate enough to have even a couple of more years with him. *passes the hankie* It’s ok, I’m a little misty-eyed, too.
1. I got to spend several vacation days with my family. I don’t get to see my family much. They stayed in the Midwest and I struck out for Oregon, so I don’t make it back much, or vice versa. In June, we all celebrated birthdays and my parents’ 40th wedding anniversary together in Branson, MO. Although it was hot as hell and I had a major case of swamp ass for a good 9 days or so, I got to spend time with my super cute, super smart and super awesome nephews (One, who particularly adores his Aunt Kris). my cool sister and her husband (who is only mildly less cool), and my folks. We went to water parks, took nifty drives, at some really bad/good food, took a cruise, rented a boat and went to an animal sanctuary. It was a really, really nice time in gorgeous rental house and was definitely a major highlight for me.
6. I finally got comfortable being alone. I used to be totally ok with it, but then I got married and having to transition back to “no one being there when you got home” was really hard for me. You get used to living a certain way, and I’ve noticed that a lot of other divorced types also really struggle with this. But, for the first time since my divorce, I was really ok with it. I really cherish my alone time and have gotten pretty darn selfish about it. I still have moments where I’d like to be out doing something and start running down the contact list on my phone but now, I sometimes choose to have solo time, even when something else is going on, because I genuinely enjoy it and am comfortable with my own company. And, I think that’s a really good thing.
So these were the highlights that immediately came to mind. I hope you have enough items to put on a list. 2009 was good to me, and I’m very grateful for my blessings. I hope you can say the same. Bring it on, 2010…Indeed, bring it on.